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Andrew George's avatar

"Since we are not from here, since we are only passing through, we are so made that there is every reason to hope."

The paradox of hope that you identify is of the same sort that runs through another word: "faith". To have faith is to believe without evidence, and to believe without evidence is itself a virtue because it's a show of faith. If God, or whatever it is you believe in, was either proven or falsified (impossible), that would be the end of faith, and thus the end of the virtue of faith because if God presented in some verifiable way, faith would not be required to believe, only rationality, hence the fait acompli.

Faith is to knowledge as hope is to utopia; the latter, coming into existence, snuffs out the former in both cases. They cannot exist simultaneously, and because living is an act of passing through, not arriving, there will always be faith in the unknown and hope for a better future. Knowledge and utopia are both end states that are aspired to unidirectionally, but are always on the horizon. In other words, complete knowledge and utopia cannot exist, because the transient nature of our existence cannot be escaped or altered.

Your instinct to "remain with both hands shut around an immense hope" is the very instinct to live, and to acknowledge what it means to be human. Because it's only through the temporary nature of our existence that meaning and value can be derived.

I can only hope that my reading did your piece justice. Absolutely phenomenal, Tamara! This is one of your best.

Ian Nolan's avatar

Hope is one of those things that will forever be as much enigma as anticipation, and delusion, and hedging, and anticipation, and meaning, and precursor to disappointment. I think one’s own personal philosophy of hope is probably the most lucid mirror into their own temperament and prejudice.

There are those who, not completely unlike myself in some previous cases, view hope as indistinguishable from torture, particularly if one is doomed. There’s also the equation to a form of Pollyannaism; those who believe Hope is the province of, ironically, hopeless optimists.

Of course, there’s an internal contradiction afoot with these types, because the glaring problem is they continue to betray their fealty to hopelessness by continuing to live, often explaining away their hewing to life as a means of being some form of soothsayer (how convenient that everyone else should be the ones to completely abandon hope while they, themselves, live in the service of hoping to propagate hopelessness!)

Certainly, one can make the case that hope betrays a sort of wishful thinking through powerlessness as well; one is out of options for control over an outcome (or worse: never explored options to begin with), and so couch themselves in hoping for the outcome they desire. In a sense, you can say that it’s a sign of dedication. Of course, if the situation boils down to chance, say, you could stand to have your hopes dashed half the time, at least.

Hope is what keeps people going, to be sure. But for those who focus only on outcome (a position granted to those with the luxury of clear judgment due to not playing with potentially loaded dice), hope can be summarily nullified. After all: what difference does it make if you hope someone will get better when you have no agency over that?

Well, it can still be a sort of a salve, and it’s not purely superstition if it’s a possibility. It’s not like attributing boons to an unseen god or maleficence to an unseen adversary. Hoping for a positive outcome can be met with just that expectation. As long as that remains the case, it isn’t just a fool’s fancy.

I will say this: I am envious of anyone to whom another person can proffer hope. I think my entire life would be inverted the day anything like that ever happened to me (not saying I don’t have congenial or uplifting experiences; but hope is on another level entirely).

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